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A Christian Marriage In June?

Apr 29

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Some couples AGONIZE over when to get married. They want everything perfect, including the time of year, and the right month. Is there a “perfect month” for a Christian marriage. Not really, as Christian couples must take into consideration there own personal schedules as well as family considerations. But there is a close to perfect month, given all the personal details/family situations can work themselves out. There are more than a few reasons why a Christian marriage in June can be the perfect time for the perfect union.

1. 5 Months after Christmas. The holidays are always hectic, and having a June wedding is a perfect time frame in that it’s a month where Christmas is well done and over, and is not yet thought about (now days you will notice in August and September some stores and people start getting their Christmas wares in place!). June is well enough after Christmas and well enough before Christmas, making it a really nice month to fit in a different kind of major celebration.

2. The Summer. This is the time where people have time off from work and in general things become more relaxed with schedules and such. Weddings are generally expected to occur in the summer months so this makes a June wedding perfect for everyone to be able to attend. Even if people are on schedules where the Summer is their busy time, June being in the beginning of Summer makes it ideal for attendance since usually the ”peak” of the summertime busy-time hasn’t yet occurred.

3. The Weather. June is usually a great month weather wise in many parts. It’s not yet too hot and certainly not too cold. Rain is usually minimal as well. This opens up opportunities for an outdoor wedding or even an outdoor event before or after the wedding. In any even it’s just more pleasant driving to the even and to the reception in nicer, warmer weather.

So definitely consider June for your Christian wedding!

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Ways to Improve Christian Sexuality both ONLINE and OFFLINE

Apr 23

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How do you go from boring intimacy to AWESOME intimacy? Exploring ways to improve your Christian sexuality is key for highly pleasurable, exciting, and fun intimacy. Here are 2 approaches to learning more about, and greatly improving your Christian sexuality.

ONLINE: There are resources online to explore in order to improve intimacy.  Message boards, blogs, and online guides can be very helpful. An online approach is great because it’s private. You can even order a Christian Intimacy Improvement Guide online and it will come in form of an E-Book, which means there is no ordering through the mail involved. You get the guide immediately, right through your computer. Online approaches are the quickest route for improving Christian sexuality as you can almost immediately implement the tips and techniques you learn.

OFFLINE: Today there are actual Christian couple seminars you can go to which deal directly with Christian sexuality issues. These are actually HUGE! We are not talking some small, secret group which meets in the Church basement late at night. That may have been the case 10 years ago, but today these seminars are so big they are advertised on huge billboards alongside highways. Usually a large convention like space is rented out and hundreds to thousands show up. When you have more people involved it becomes much less daunting. Attending becomes much easier, knowing that there are hundreds of other Christians planning to go. It becomes a fun event, where very informative information is shared in an environment where no one is embarrassed or ashamed they have shown up (again, this is another result of mass amounts of people showing up). So keep your eye out for seminars that may be visiting your area in the near future. Likely they will sell out fast!

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Christian Date Night and MAKING OUT!

Apr 20

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Couples can naturally lose that “jolt of intimacy” that existed so strongly when they were first together. We get comfortable in our roles and routines. Things become monotonous and seem to lose that flare.

So what’s the answer?

Remember what worked before? Time to re-visit those times which provided so much intimate excitement!

If it worked before, why struggle to find new and different answers? We don’t re-invent the wheel, we just modify it and make it better.

Maybe the both of you can no longer fit in the back of that old 4 cyclinder ford compact car, maybe the drive-in’s have shut down and maybe you can’t seem to find time for some smooching like you could have in the past.

Well then the key is to do all these things again, just update them a bit for 2012 and beyond.

Instead of sneaking smooches in cars, get a hotel room. Relive that excitement of being somewhere else and making out.

Drive-in’s still exist in some areas! Go check them out if so. But unfortunately yes, many have disappeared. You can still relive the movie night though. It’s easier than ever to rent a movie now days. This can be excellent for getting close to one another and can be a good setup for some serious make-out time.

Finally, the time issue. You really need to CREATE TIME. Yes everyone says they have no time. But if you want your relationship to work, then you have to get up earlier and go to bed later in order to accomplish the things that need to be done. Then you will have freed up some serious making out session time for the two of you to be together and get back to that place of intimacy jolt that can so easily slip on by if you’re not careful.

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Christian Sex Should NOT Be Complicated – 3 Simple Steps to Better Christian Sex

Apr 16

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We often over complicate sex, and when it comes to talking about Christian sex, we really can complicate matters by becoming overwhelmed with everything from rules to technique. But it doesn’t, and shouldn’t, be that complicated. The most important thing is becoming intimate with one another. Celebrating your union and experiencing the God gifted pleasures which you both deserve.

Here are 3 simple steps for a better Christian sex life.

  1. RULES. The first issue that seems to arise very often is Christian rules regarding intimacy. This is also one of the biggest issues that complicate relationships, so much so that some couples stop having sex altogether because they get so overwhelmed in the different views and opinions. Here is how to deal with “the rules of Christian intimacy” as quickly as possible: Do not do sexual acts, positions, or techniques which knowingly cause harm to your partner. In other words, don’t do that which will cause danger or inflict pain. Remember, sex is all about PLEASURE. As Christians we need to keep it that away. You can also read a good Christian sex guide to find out what should be allowed and what shouldn’t, but the main thing is safety and pleasure, over harm and danger.
  2. PREFERENCE. This can also be related to rules as well, but it should really stand on it’s own because it is so important, and so obvious, yet so many couples ignore it. Find out what your partner likes during intimacy. What is his/her preference as far as positions go, technique, and touch. Everyone is different. Christian couples are different. There is no one glove fits all pleasuring position or technique. You have to find that out for yourselves (which can be a very enjoyable process by the way). Communicate with one another. “Do you like this? How does this feel?” You have to communicate and pay attention to your spouses likes and desires. This is HUGE in creating mind blowing, unforgettable, intimate moments between the two of you.
  3. VARIETY. Christian sex is about learning. Even though we may have our preferences, there is also room for more. There are dozens of new Christian safe pleasuring techniques out there waiting for you to try. As Christians you deserve a high level of enjoyable intimacy, and the only way to achieve that is through learning new and exciting ways to become intimate with one another. Whether you are a husband or wife, there are excellent intimacy guides featured on this site which can help greatly with providing a variety of sexual , Christian safe techniques to improve your love life.

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Christian Sex Tips – Pleasing One Another Sexually

Apr 12

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When it comes to intimacy, everyone seems to be different. Some are more connected and comfortable with a particular position, some prefer to be intimately pleased in a certain manner, and some do not prefer specific techniques or particular positions but also haven’t experimented enough to find out what REALLY turns them on during intimacy.

The key is to find out what Christian sex techniques you and your spouse like, enjoy, and are comfortable with.

Unfortunately most couples get stuck in a rut. They do the same thing each time they become intimate with one another. They are likely missing out on a lot of other highly enjoyable Christian sex tips which can provide more variety for pleasuring one another. The key is experimenting and learning what each other like, and what you don’t like.

DO NOT let EGO get in the way when trying out new Christian safe tips and techniques. If your spouse doesn’t prefer a certain position, that’s OK. Everyone doesn’t like everything. As mentioned we all have our preferences. Never let a failed attempt at sexually pleasing your spouse get the both of you down, or make you go back to your regular run of the mill intimacy ritual. It’s a learning experience and it will ultimately bring you closer and even more intimate with one another.

Christian sex should be a mutually pleasing experience, and in order to discover how to please one another to the max, you may have to stumble around a bit before getting to those sexual sweet spots which will totally improve your sex lives, bringing you more intimate with one another than ever before!

 

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Christian Sex in a Christian Marriage

Apr 9

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There are 3 often forgot about elements regarding Christian sex in a Christian marriage. These are very important intimacy elements to a Christian marriage, and serve as a good reminder of what intimacy should be all about.

1. Christian sex…should be fun!

Stop stressing over the many question marks regarding Christian sex. Too often couples get lost in a sea of disinformation and end up not becoming intimate at all due to the overwhelming nature of “trying to get everything right”. A major part of intimacy within a Christian marriage is the fun factor. You should ENJOY YOURSELVES. Acting out nervousness and awkwardness should NOT be major elements of your intimate moments.

2. Sex is CELEBRATION.

Intimacy between married couples was meant to serve as a wonderful celebration of the union between the two of you. It’s one of the highest forms of physical, and emotional, celebration and should be seen as nothing less. Realizing that sex is a form of true celebration can make your realize how serious you should take your intimacy, in regards to making it the BEST it can possibly be.

3. LEARNING to be a Lover.

Intimacy between two people is like anything else. It takes practice. You need to learn how to be a great lover. You do this by learning what it is your spouse enjoys. What gives him or her the greatest amount of pleasure? Can you see how providing this extreme pleasure to your spouse will provide the best level of celebration? The highest form of intimate FUN? It’s very important to try and become the best possible lover you can be. Learn the different skills of intimacy and seek out ways to learn Christian safe techniques which can provide incredible pleasures to your life long partner.

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How Better Sex will Make You a Better Christian Husband

Jan 21

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If you are reading this post, you are already halfway to becoming a better Christian husband. Seriously.

You see, most men don’t even get this far. They don’t admit that they have shortcomings and that improvements could be made on their part. It takes a strong man to step up and say, “you know what, I know I can be a better Christian husband, and I’m going to find out how.”

Since you’ve gone this far, let’s see if I can get you to go even further! Yes, we’re going to talk about the bedroom. One of the best ways to express yourself is through intimacy. And obviously some of the most intimate moments take place in the bedroom.

Sure, improving your day to day intimacy, as in kissing, hugging, saying “I love you” is definitely important and can work wonders for becoming a great husband. But let’s go further and talk about how improving bedroom intimacy will work even better.

Showing your wife that you have actually taken the time to learn new ways to please her in the most intimate moments, is a huge display of effort revealing to her that you are indeed placing her needs first.

This is what becoming a better Christian husband is all about. Placing her needs first. Listening to her desires. And taking action so you can adjust things appropriately in order for your awesome wife to be 100% satisfied, and then some.

Guys have a hard time switching up their sexual mannerisms or routines. Women actually get stuck in certain patterns as well. It takes one of you to break this mold, and I believe it should be the guy.

Some easy steps to start with are things like switching positions. Find positions (like the woman on top) where women generally gain more satisfaction from. Try some new pleasuring techniques and pay close attention to how your wife responds. Communicate with her your desires to please her, and ask her what fantasies she may have.

Even if you have a good sex life, there are always ways to improve it even more. And since this is all about becoming the best husband possible, it’s always worth learning some great new pleasuring tips and tricks to keep the sparks fresh and the romance exciting!

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Christian Intimacy Pleasures – How Important is Providing Pleasure in My Christian Marriage?

Jan 20

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How important is pleasing my partner intimately?

Very Important! Christian intimacy is an important aspect to your relationship. Providing one another pleasure in intimate matters should definitely be a goal in every Christian marriage.

Think about it. Intimacy is the celebration of marriage; the celebration of being together with one another. This celebration should be taken seriously. This means learning what your partner likes and dislikes in the bedroom, as well as experimenting with new ways to provide pleasures which will in turn make your intimacy even more appreciative and more along the lines of communicating these special moments of celebration.

There are many ways you can improve your intimacy in a Christian marriage. First find out what your partner likes and feels comfortable with. Practice these positions and intimate actions so you can provide the high level of sensations that you and your partner deserve!

But don’t stop there. You definitely want to experiment with new, different positions and pleasuring techniques. Not all of them will be successful, but it’s exactly this kind of trial and error which you need to go through in order to find new and exciting paths to intimacy.

Enjoy the Process.

Relationships are work. Achieving high level, enjoyable intimacy in a Christian marriage is work as well. But it’s obviously a very pleasurable process! So enjoy the process. Do not feel bad if the fireworks don’t go off the first few tries, or if only a moderate level of pleasure is achieved. This is where many couples give up, or become embarrassed and cease intimacy altogether. If they would have only hung in there and tried repeated intimate efforts, they would have eventually ended up with an excellent sex life. So hang in there and keep at it until things “click”. And when they do, it will be all worth it!

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How To Improve Your Christian Marriage Intimacy

Aug 3

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Christian marriage intimacy is VERY important. If you are not experiencing the type of intimacy you desire you definitely should take action and find ways to improve the situation.

If there are questions regarding sex in a christian marriage, then you definitely want to find answers.

RECOMMENDED READING:

For improving your sex life in a Christian marriage, and to experience a much more fulfilling relationship, I recommend checking out these two highly effective resources which provide all the answers you’ll need, as well as intimate tips (which we can’t write about here!).

If you are a Christian husband check this out:

INTIMACY SKILLS FOR THE CHRISTIAN HUSBAND

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If you are a Christian wife, check this out:

INTIMACY GUIDE FOR THE CHRISTIAN WIFE

 

 

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